{"id":417,"date":"2023-05-26T04:11:59","date_gmt":"2023-05-26T09:11:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/?p=417"},"modified":"2024-01-19T18:16:25","modified_gmt":"2024-01-20T00:16:25","slug":"understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/","title":{"rendered":"Understanding the Taker Mentality: What Do You Call a Person Who Always Takes and Never Gives?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_65 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-white ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#The_Psychology_of_Takers\" title=\"The Psychology of Takers\">The Psychology of Takers<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#The_Origins_of_Taker_Mentality\" title=\"The Origins of Taker Mentality\">The Origins of Taker Mentality<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#The_Impact_of_Takers\" title=\"The Impact of Takers\">The Impact of Takers<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#Dealing_with_Takers\" title=\"Dealing with Takers\">Dealing with Takers<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#Overcoming_the_Taker_Mentality\" title=\"Overcoming the Taker Mentality\">Overcoming the Taker Mentality<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#Recognizing_Your_Behavior\" title=\"Recognizing Your Behavior\">Recognizing Your Behavior<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#Cultivating_Empathy\" title=\"Cultivating Empathy\">Cultivating Empathy<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#Giving_Back\" title=\"Giving Back\">Giving Back<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#Identifying_and_Avoiding_Takers\" title=\"Identifying and Avoiding Takers\">Identifying and Avoiding Takers<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#Seeking_Help\" title=\"Seeking Help\">Seeking Help<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#FAQs_%E2%80%93_What_do_you_call_a_person_who_always_takes_and_never_gives\" title=\"FAQs &#8211; What do you call a person who always takes and never gives?\">FAQs &#8211; What do you call a person who always takes and never gives?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#What_is_the_common_term_for_a_person_who_always_takes_and_never_gives\" title=\"What is the common term for a person who always takes and never gives?\">What is the common term for a person who always takes and never gives?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#Are_there_other_words_that_describe_a_person_who_always_takes_and_never_gives\" title=\"Are there other words that describe a person who always takes and never gives?\">Are there other words that describe a person who always takes and never gives?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#What_are_some_examples_of_takers\" title=\"What are some examples of takers?\">What are some examples of takers?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abmotivation.com\/understanding-the-taker-mentality-what-do-you-call-a-person-who-always-takes-and-never-gives\/#How_can_you_deal_with_a_person_who_always_takes_and_never_gives\" title=\"How can you deal with a person who always takes and never gives?\">How can you deal with a person who always takes and never gives?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Psychology_of_Takers\"><\/span>The Psychology of Takers<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>We&#8217;ve all encountered them at some point in our lives &#8211; people who seem to have a perpetual sense of entitlement and take without any regard for others. These individuals are known as takers, and their behavior is rooted in the psychology of entitlement and narcissism.<\/p>\n<p>Takers are often characterized by their inability to empathize with others and their tendency to exploit those around them for personal gain. They may manipulate or coerce others into doing what they want, without any thought for how their actions might impact those around them.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Origins_of_Taker_Mentality\"><\/span>The Origins of Taker Mentality<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The taker mentality is often rooted in childhood experiences, such as a lack of emotional support or validation. Children who grow up in environments that are emotionally neglectful or abusive may develop a sense of entitlement as a way to cope with their feelings of powerlessness.<\/p>\n<p>As they grow older, takers may continue to seek out situations that allow them to exert control and power over others, even if it means disregarding the needs and feelings of those around them.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Impact_of_Takers\"><\/span>The Impact of Takers<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The impact of takers on those around them can be significant. Takers may leave their friends, family members, and coworkers feeling drained and unappreciated, as they constantly take without giving in return.<\/p>\n<p>Over time, this can lead to feelings of resentment and disillusionment, as those who have been taken advantage of begin to feel that their efforts are not being recognized or valued.<\/p>\n<p>The taker mentality is rooted in entitlement and narcissism, often stemming from childhood experiences of emotional neglect or abuse. Takers may manipulate or exploit others for personal gain, leaving those around them feeling drained and unappreciated. Dealing with takers requires setting boundaries, communicating assertively, and practicing self-care. To overcome the taker mentality, one must recognize their behavior, cultivate empathy, give back, identify and avoid takers, and seek professional help if needed.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Dealing_with_Takers\"><\/span>Dealing with Takers<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Dealing with takers can be challenging, as their behavior may be deeply ingrained and difficult to change. However, there are several strategies that can be effective in dealing with takers, including:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Setting boundaries: Establish clear boundaries with takers and stick to them. Let them know what you are and are not willing to do for them.<\/li>\n<li>Communicating assertively: Speak up for yourself and let takers know how their behavior is impacting you. Use &#8220;I&#8221; statements to express your feelings and avoid blaming or accusing language.<\/li>\n<li>Practicing self-care: Make sure you are taking care of yourself and setting aside time for your own needs. This can help you to feel more empowered and less drained by the taker&#8217;s behavior.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Overcoming_the_Taker_Mentality\"><\/span>Overcoming the Taker Mentality<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you find yourself exhibiting taker behavior, it&#8217;s important to take steps to overcome this mindset and develop a more giving and empathetic approach to life.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Recognizing_Your_Behavior\"><\/span>Recognizing Your Behavior<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The first step in overcoming <strong>the taker mentality is to<\/strong> recognize when you are exhibiting this behavior. Pay attention to your thoughts and actions, and look for patterns of behavior that center around taking without giving in return.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cultivating_Empathy\"><\/span>Cultivating Empathy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Developing empathy is key to overcoming the taker mentality. This involves putting yourself in other people&#8217;s shoes and considering their feelings and perspectives. Practice active listening and try to understand where others are coming from.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Giving_Back\"><\/span>Giving Back<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>One of the most effective ways to overcome <strong>the taker mentality is to<\/strong> make a conscious effort to give back to others. This can involve volunteering, donating to charity, or simply making an effort to be more giving in your daily interactions with others.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Identifying_and_Avoiding_Takers\"><\/span>Identifying and Avoiding Takers<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>In some cases, it may be necessary to identify and avoid takers altogether. This can be particularly important in professional settings, where working with a taker can have a significant impact on your career.<\/p>\n<p>To identify a taker, look for signs of entitlement, such as a lack of appreciation for the efforts of others or a tendency to take credit for the work of others. Takers may also be unwilling to compromise or collaborate, instead insisting on having things their way.<\/p>\n<p>If you find yourself working with a taker, it may be necessary to limit your interactions with them or to seek out other colleagues who can offer more support and collaboration.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Seeking_Help\"><\/span>Seeking Help<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>In some cases, overcoming the taker mentality may require professional help. Therapy or counseling can be effective in helping individuals to identify and address underlying psychological issues that may be contributing to their taker behavior.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQs_%E2%80%93_What_do_you_call_a_person_who_always_takes_and_never_gives\"><\/span>FAQs &#8211; What do you call a person who always takes and never gives?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_is_the_common_term_for_a_person_who_always_takes_and_never_gives\"><\/span>What is the common term for a person who always takes and never gives?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The common term for a <strong>person who always takes and<\/strong> never gives is a &#8220;taker.&#8221; A taker is a person who is selfish and only thinks of themselves. They are not concerned about the needs of others and tend to take advantage of people&#8217;s kindness and generosity. Takers often have a sense of entitlement and may feel that they are owed something without having to give anything in return.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Are_there_other_words_that_describe_a_person_who_always_takes_and_never_gives\"><\/span>Are there other words that describe a person who always takes and never gives?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Yes, there are other words that can be used to describe a <strong>person who always takes and<\/strong> never gives. Some other terms include a moocher, a freeloader, a leech, or a sponge. These words all describe a person who takes from others without contributing anything in return. They are often used to describe people who are lazy or unwilling to work, but still expect others to support them.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_are_some_examples_of_takers\"><\/span>What are some examples of takers?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Takers can come in many forms, and they may be found in different situations. For example, a coworker who always takes credit for your ideas but never acknowledges your contribution can be considered a taker. A friend who always borrows money from you but never pays you back is also a taker. Similarly, a family member who constantly asks for favors but never offers to help you out when you need it can also be identified as a taker.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_can_you_deal_with_a_person_who_always_takes_and_never_gives\"><\/span>How can you deal with a person who always takes and never gives?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Dealing with a taker can be difficult, as they may not be willing to change their behavior. However, there are some strategies you can use to protect yourself from being taken advantage of. First, it is important to set boundaries and communicate your expectations clearly. Let the person know that you expect them to contribute and give back in some way. You can also try to limit your interactions with the person or avoid them altogether if possible. Additionally, it may be helpful to seek the advice of a therapist or counselor, who can provide support and guidance on how to deal with difficult people.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Psychology of Takers We&#8217;ve all encountered them at some point in our lives &#8211; people who seem to have a perpetual sense of entitlement and take without any regard for others. These individuals are known as takers, and their behavior is rooted in the psychology of entitlement and narcissism. 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